judgement and negativity
November 29, 2010
do you like to talk a lot? or are you the silent type?
kbai
c’mon, dont hate me
lol
i dont hate you i just dont like negative people, lifes too short =)
are you saying i’m one of the negative people?
and did you imply that you dont like me?
how are you? i shifted to smalltalk, for i didn’t know what to say next.
people who claim they like open mindedness and think one shouldn’t judge other people (or pass jud\egment) are often very negative, and tend to simply assume attributes of another, which they further assume are correct, and believe they are absolute. he/she will never change in his/her eyes. the judged human, will never change in the eyes and heart of the one passing the judgement.
and often there are some people, persistent. they stick to their cause. they believe in their hearts, some of them i’m sure, i try to be persistent, but i don’t really believe in my heart, or head for the matter. the heart is an organ, but also is a word used to refer to the more humane heart, sometimes referred to as the soul. those of them who believe, are often successful, but then there are also the ones who aren’t successful.
Negativity, on the other hand, and then some on the same hand, is an innate attribute. they are pessimists, who hate people who are pessimists, like a pessimist hates everything (note, its not “everything else”). and often they end up, finding the negatives in themselves too, and eventually, without even realizing it, starts hating themselves, body and soul. some realize what they are doing and are lesser few are able to reverse themselves out of this evil conditioning, bless them Allah.
later. lost me thoughts.
